Do you have a High Status Star on your team? Don't feed them Humble Pie

Some think the answer to get performance for the team is to hire a star performer.  Many times that star wants high status.  A common misconception is a high performer has more resources to draw upon during a setback, but according to a study by a couple of Academy of Management professors this isn’t true as often as people think.  One of the things I figured out is the Type A over achiever who has the high status star has some flaws when you dig underneath. You’ll find many times they have many more insecurities than others, and has something they obsessively focus on to show they are better than the rest.  This study explains the situation with some data.

Although "making their prestigious position a central part of their self bolsters high-status individuals' self-worth... it also means that they come to depend more than low-status individuals on their status to maintain their positive self-view," explain the paper's authors Jennifer Carson Marr of Georgia Institute of Technology and Stefan Thau of INSEAD. "Consequently, losing status is likely to be more self-threatening for high- than low-status individuals [and they] will experience a more significant decline in the quality of their performance in the immediate aftermath of status loss."

One of the great observations made by a data center executive is a person who is the “Donald Trump” of the data center industry.  Why? That person is self promoting.  He is a nice guy, but after a while it gets a bit tiring to feed their ego.

The last thing you want to feed a high status individual is a serving of Humble Pie.  Here are three tips to take care of that high status individual who works on your team or may be yourself.

Asked what lessons might be drawn from the paper's findings, Prof Marr names three.

 

"The first is to acknowledge that even top performers -- in fact, especially top performers -- are prone to make mistakes and suffer poor performance in the aftermath of status loss, which suggests that this is not the time to be taking significant actions or making important decisions. It is prudent to take some time off and restore one's sense of self-worth before returning to work.

 

"Second, you can reduce the harm from status loss by taking some time to think about a valued relationship and, in general, by recognizing the value of meaningful relationships or aspects of one's life outside of work. These elements can compensate for threats to the self that loss of status can entail. Another way to achieve this may be by looking to change jobs, to find work at another organization where you feel respected.

 

"Finally, our research investigates the immediate consequences of status loss, but over time individuals find ways to affirm themselves and come back. Steve Jobs was a prime example of that. Maybe we'll see the same thing with A-Rod now that he has a year off courtesy of a Major League Baseball arbitration. He's talking about coming back better than ever, and, who knows, if he's learned a lesson, he just might."

Om Malik Makes a Transition from GigaOm to True Ventures

Kara Swisher on re/code writes on Om Malik’s move full time to True Ventures, leaving GigaOm.  It is funny how many times people think Om’s name is Giga Om.  Going to True Ventures, Om won’t have this problem as much.  Om is different than most media in that he has made the jump to the VC community.  Reading Kara’s post reminds me of things that make Om fit in a technical community.

A sassy tech blog with class and standards and ethics and a big, big, voice?

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But Om has been much more than a disruptor. He has also been a generous and kind adviser to anyone who needed help, including to competitors; a smart and analytical writer, whose fog-horn sensibilities nearly always cut through the incessant soup of hype that blankets the Bay Area tech landscape; a terrific reporter at his core, who knows news, has a nose for news and, well, knows it.

Kara closes also making the point on Om’s name.

From Medieval Latin, omniscient means “all-knowing,” which kind of sums up Om a lot of the time.

His own name also is defined as a “mystic syllable, considered the most sacred mantra.” Perhaps that’s going to far — I know he’d think (and say) so.

So let’s just agree that it’s been a good name — a really good name — to represent tech journalism online and we’re all the better for it and owe him a debt of gratitude.

Here is True Ventures post on Om joining.

Om is known for his prescient thoughts about the tech industry, his deep understanding of markets and trends, and his fast friendships with most of the other thought leaders in our industry. He is the most loyal and thoughtful friend an entrepreneur could ever ask for, including all of us at True. Few people in Silicon Valley are as respected, and as someone who has known Om for a long time, I can say with absolute authority that few people are as kind.

That is why it is an incredible honor to announce today that Om Malik will join True as a full-time partner. He has detailed his decision on GigaOM, and we are unbelievably blessed to have him dedicate the majority of his time to True. Om personifies this firm’s love affair with technology, and we are so looking forward to having him, his big ideas and his big heart around a lot more.

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What’s Om doing?

Status Update

I have hung up my reporter’s notebook for good and retired from the news business. I have joined early stage venture capital firm, True Ventures, as a full partner of the firm.

 It is great to see people make transitions and grow.

Disclosure: I work part time for GigaOm Research and have had the pleasure of good conversations with Om.

Data Center Club "Old Guys Rule!"

I am about to get on a plane going home.  There were a bunch of my data center friends who I was hoping to see this trip, but many were too busy to make time to get to the Open Compute Summit.  Starting the week, I texted one friend who I expected to be NC, but was in the bay area.  Let’s have a beer.  “I am too busy” ok.  Then at Open Compute I heard another data center friend is flying in from Texas.  Send a text  "you here?”  No, but I will be tomorrow.  “let’s have a beer.”  sign me up.  Ping another friend who makes the commute from Seattle to SJC on a regular basis.  “you here?”  I get on a plane today I’ll be there tonight.  Awesome now have 5 of us who haven’t connected.

Next day, think of another friend who might not be traveling.  He can come and he is bringing another friend from Seattle.    Texas friend shows up with a fellow data center guy.

Total we had nine of some of the smartest guys in the data center industry.  People who don’t necessarily get on stage.  The guys who do the work and know what is the B.S. and marketing hype.

What comes to mind is “Old Guys Rule"

A badge of honor.
There comes a time in your life when comfort meets substance. When all your hard work seems to have paid dividends, and the world is at your command. All the things you hoped you could do someday, you're doing. The toils of youth are now your experiences... no longer the student, but the teacher.

To celebrate your accomplishments we offer up "Old Guys Rule" to be worn as a badge of honor for a life well spent, but not nearly over...

These are great words to describe the guys.  People who have worked hard and the dividends are paying off as they rise in responsibility.

Can you think of a data center friend who belongs to the “Old Guys Rule” club? Take the time to try and get together.  Data Center friends who have perspective is invaluable.

 

5 good reasons why I don't have clients in DC

I am a West Coast guy, and try to keep my client base on the west coast.  I don’t think I have ever visited a DC agency for business other than the President’s Photography department to research the use of RAW images and other features for photography in Windows 15 years ago.

I know the Federal Government is a different world, and when I read Stacey Higginbotham’s post on visiting a DC conference it clarified the differences.

 

5 ways Washington DC is very different than Silicon Valley

 

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photo: Stacey Higginbotham/Gigaom
SUMMARY:

Silicon Valley and Washington D.C. are on opposite coasts and often seem like opposite worlds, but learning how they differ might help bridge some very real gaps in how tech policy is talked about and implemented.

Paper is the note taking medium, not a computer.

The tool of choice is paper, not a computer. I can scan the rows of people at our Structure conference and see the lids of many a MacBook or the glow of tablets, but here, while there were some folks typing in their notes, more were jotting things down on paper. And in conversations with people, only one ever pulled out a phone; and that was because someone was calling her. FCC Chairman Tom Wheeler even told me after an onstage interview that people are more productive wearing a watch than using their phones to check the time because the phones then distract them. People clearly have smart phones, but they aren’t using them like they are a tether to a more interesting world.

The one thing I don’t think I could get used to is the fact that people sit in the presentations as a higher priority than networking.

When you attend a conference in DC, you actually attend the conference. The sessions were packed and the screening room was overflowing with people watching the proceedings. There are few people wandering the halls doing deals or networking outside of the breaks.

 

The rest of the post remind of the other 3 things that explain how different it is to do business in DC.